Dear Scott,
Thanks for the input. I doubt that the system has any scripts to kill idle connections but I would double check that. There are two difficulty in tracing
and fixing this: 1) The crash is predictable and 2) Can find any killed in the kernel log files.
There are few materials on the net which tell how to fix this problem. But first would be good to confirm that it is OOM and, if not, then what exactly is causing this to happen.
-Sandeep